I'm sick and tired of having to take care of your brother just because he refuses to go out and find a job.
只是因为你弟弟不肯出去找工作就得我来照顾他,这真让我烦透了。
Normal people tend to forget this process unless and until they are reminded of it.
衰老的过程,不经提起,正常人容易忘记;一经提醒,才会记起。